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July 3, 2018

If your attorney hasn’t talked to you about, and suggested, that there are peaceful solutions to your legal problems, you are talking to the wrong attorney. As an attorney I have come to understand that fighting is NEVER the best solution. It is a last resort when you...

December 6, 2017

There is no "one size fits all" custody arrangement. The family law trend over the years has been to create custody arrangements like, 2-2-3 or 2-2-5, that allows equal parenting time. The problem is that trying to fit the busy, complex lives of families into pre-creat...

November 22, 2017

My therapist likes to say “Don’t waste a good crisis.” Divorce is a major family crisis. I have not only been through a divorce, I am a divorce attorney that helps people see the event as an opportunity rather than a devastating ending or a war. Divorce is merely a tim...

November 21, 2017

There is no greater issue in a divorce case than child custody. Sole custody, joint custody, shared custody, split custody, are all labels created by our system to help define new parental roles within the family. We are a society of labels. Labels keep things neat and...

November 13, 2017

Parents should never say "You spent two days with Dad and only one with me." or "No, you can't see Mom, it's my time." In other words, don't compare the time spent or stop your children from seeing the other parent or other family. It's not about quantity, it most defi...

November 11, 2017

Parents should never say "Don't blame me!",  "I didn't ask for this divorce" or "It's because of your mother...".  In other words, don't play the blame game. There is no blame in a divorce. There is no right or wrong in a divorce. It's merely a matter of perspective. R...

November 10, 2017

It’s my father’s birthday today. He would have been 74 and practicing law for 47 years. (a palindrome). What made him such a great person and attorney was that he made his clients, me and the rest of his family feel provided for and safe. Just his massive presence alon...

October 27, 2017

Picture of miniature clay sculpture from my father’s attorney art collection.

If you are seeking an attorney it's probably because you have a problem that is legal in nature. Underlying most legal problems is the emotion that energizes it. Attorneys are trained to be ad...

October 24, 2017

I get to go to court this morning to fight for justice! Not really. I’m going to Court but I don’t believe the type of justice that really matters typically happens in a courtroom. In fact, I think this little statue from my father’s collection speaks of a higher justi...

October 20, 2017

This is a drawing done by an amazing artist Charles Bragg who was notable for his legal characterizations. This one is called “Out of Court Settlement”. This is the way legal problems should be solved, i.e. out of court.

As an attorney I am dedicated to the mindful pra...

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